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The OnePoll* survey from Maggie鈥檚 also reveals that the three most emotionally challenging aspects of Christmas for people with cancer are:

• worrying 鈥榯hat it might be my last Christmas鈥� (30%)
• trying 鈥榯o make sure it is still special for my children鈥� (37%)
• feeling 鈥榰nder pressure to make it feel like a normal Christmas鈥� (33%).

Christmas with cancer - 鈥渢here is no certainty鈥�

Gemma, from Oxford, is 42 and a mum of two. She was diagnosed with bowel cancer just before Christmas in 2022. She said: 鈥淚t was a total shock. I had gone into hospital thinking I had a water infection, and I left with a stage 4 cancer diagnosis.

鈥淢y kids had their Christmas dinner last year with my daughter鈥檚 partner鈥檚 family because I spent it in hospital. When you have stage four cancer, you start to think about things that you might miss out on with your children.

鈥淢y kids tell me 鈥楳um, if you make it to Christmas, we will make it really special鈥�, but it鈥檚 hard to plan what we will do because I don鈥檛 know if I will need more treatment and how it will affect me. With stage 4 cancer, there is no certainty.

鈥淐hristmas is an expensive time of year, and during a cost of living crisis, every penny counts. I tried to apply for benefits myself but I had never done it before, I didn鈥檛 know how it works and I didn鈥檛 have the time to waste. I spoke to Penny, the Benefits Advisor at Maggie鈥檚 Oxford, who was fantastic.

鈥淢aggie鈥檚 is tranquil. You step in and you feel like you are somewhere completely different. The hospital is one part of my journey, but emotionally, psychologically, Maggie鈥檚 is the other part of my journey.鈥�

澳门彩开奖 can help with Christmas worries

Maggie鈥檚 Chief Executive, Dame Laura Lee said: 鈥淚t is heart-breaking that so many people with cancer are worrying more about the cost of Christmas than ever before, when it should be a joyful time of year.

鈥淲orrying about whether this Christmas might be their last or about making Christmas still feel special for their children are normal emotions for someone living with cancer, and these are things we hear about a lot in our centres at this time of year.

鈥淲e can help. Anyone with cancer, as well as their family or friends, can come into one of our centres 鈥� whether it's to find a place to sit with their own thoughts and a cup of tea, or to access expert support from our psychologists or cancer support specialists. If it is money worries that people are concerned about, then people can speak with a benefits advisor.

鈥淚 would urge anyone feeling under pressure in the run-up to the holidays to visit their nearest Maggie鈥檚.鈥�

Top tips on coping with Christmas while living with cancer 鈥� 澳门彩开奖

• Joy to the World 鈥� or not. Christmas doesn鈥檛 have to be happy, and heightened emotion can mean being more tearful than normal 鈥� it is ok to be sad at Christmas.
• Embrace ChristMESS! Don鈥檛 try to make everything perfect 鈥� life is messy, so let Christmas be messy too.
• Silent Night/Peace on Earth 鈥� go for a walk, for a coffee or for a lie-down when you feel you need a bit of peace and quiet.
• Take advantage of Christmas spirit 鈥� guests can walk dogs, look after kids, tidy up and wash dishes after Christmas dinner.
• Say what you want or need 鈥� don鈥檛 feel pressured into overeating or eating a traditional meal, playing games or staying up late. Simply let people know what works for you.
• Stocking up! To make things as easy as possible, ensure you have everything you need for over the holidays. This includes: medication, dressings, extra oxygen, and also everyday items such as indigestion tablets, toiletries and batteries.
• Five Gold Rings 鈥� Christmas shouldn鈥檛 be about spending lots of money on expensive food and presents. Remember that it鈥檚 a time to come together with friends and family. Everything else isn鈥檛 important.
• Dashing through the snow鈥� or not. With so many activities, it can be difficult to pace yourself at Christmas, especially when already coping with fatigue caused by treatment. You can find out more information on fatigue and tiredness here.

Discover more tips on coping with Christmas while living with cancer here.

How we can help

If you or someone you love has cancer and you are struggling in the run-up to this holiday season, 澳门彩开奖 is here to support you.

Our centres are located across the UK on the grounds of NHS hospitals, and our professional staff include psychologists, cancer support specialists and benefits advisors.

• Find your nearest centre for support and information 
• Call us on 0300 123 180
• Email us at enquiries@maggies.org
• Our phone lines and centres are open Monday to Friday, 9 am to 5 pm

Last review: Nov 2023 | Next review: May 2024